The best man’s guide to wedding planning

Relax before the big day? Not a chance! Swot up on your pre-wedding tasks

  1. Get suited and booted

    Together with the groom, decide on the outfits for both yourselves and the ushers. Make sure the groom is clear about who’s paying for what – generally each person will pay for his own hire cost. If you’re hiring morning dress, try to arrange for all the fittings to be done together or at least by the same supplier. At the very least, phone round and make sure that all the men know what they're supposed to be wearing and where it's from.

    Find out more about choosing a suit in the Men and Menswear area of our Fashion & Beauty section.

    You may also be responsible for collecting the outfits, probably the day before the wedding. Check to ensure the outfits are correct and complete.

  2. Write that wedding speech!

    The best speeches are generally well-prepared and rehearsed. The best man’s speech follows the groom and is usually the witty one everyone looks forward to. The key is to be natural, keep it simple and don’t try to be too funny – you’ve already got an adoring audience! You can find fantastic speech advice, example speeches and toasts, jokes and one-liners to use, in the Confetti speech centre.

  3. Plan the stag celebrations

    Ah yes, it's down to you to organise the all-important stag night (or weekend). It’s wise not to hold it the night before the wedding, instead choosing a weekend some weeks or months before the wedding day.

    We’ve got hundreds of ideas for great stag celebrations in our Hen & Stag section.

  4. Do a dry run

    The majority of wedding ceremonies will have a rehearsal, and it’s crucial that you’re there. It’s important that you know exactly where to stand, what to do and when to hand over the rings.

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