Stand-in speaker: Where to start
Here’s a rundown of what’s expected of you, if you’re stepping into the breach and making a wedding speech
- Introduce yourself and explain briefly your relationship to the bride (and groom).
- If one of the bride or groom’s parents has passed away, you should honour them in your speech.
- Thank the guests for joining the celebrations.
- Thank all those who have paid for any part of the wedding and helped to organise the day.
- Compliment the bride.
- Welcome the groom.
Propose a toast to the bride and groom.
General Wedding Speech Guide
- About the bride
- Who speaks and when
- Lines that are sentimental
- Who says what
- Great lines about the groom
- 20 top tips for making a great speech
- Coping with nerves
- End on a high!
- Tips, hints and checklists for a perfect wedding speech
- After you’ve written the speech
- Handling props and equipment
- Making a strong start
- Giving your speech a meaty middle
- Choosing the right material
- Researching your speech
- Getting your delivery right
- Speech games
- Great lines for your best man’s speech
- Wedding speech No-Nos
- Great lines about the bride
- Lines to get a laugh
- Lines to kick off with
- Ten tips for a top performance
- How to make people laugh with a wedding speech
- How to work jokes into your wedding speech
- Lines that work – and lines that don’t…
- Other speakers
- The bride’s speech: Where to start
- Sample material: For the stand-in speaker
- Making a wedding toast
- Who traditionally says what




