Christenings and naming ceremonies

A celebration for family and friends is the perfect way to welcome your little one!

Christening and naming ceremonies are essentially times when family and close friends get together. A party thrown to celebrate the occasion will probably have one of the widest age ranges -- from the baby to grandparents and beyond.

Christenings and naming ceremonies tend to be regarded as the time when a child is officially named, the only difference being that one is a religious ceremony, the other non-religious. A Christening, or Baptism, is a religious service in which a child is introduced into the Church. Naming ceremonies, on the other hand, were created by the Humanist Society as an opportunity for non-religious parents to welcome their child into the world and publicly say something about their intentions for the benefit of the family.

Timing

To a certain extent, the date will be determined by whether you want a religious or secular ceremony. Christening services tend to be held at the end of a regular Sunday service and the party tends to roll on afterwards into the afternoon and end early evening. A Naming ceremony, however, is more a service and party all rolled into one and can be held on any day of the week, at any time. Neither, however, needs to be held within any particular period of the birth -- it’s quite common nowadays to see two or more children from the same family christened together.

Numbers

There are no hard-and-fast rules about the number of people to invite. It can be a small affair with only close family members and godparents or, in the case of a naming ceremony, the adults you want to have a strong presence in your child's future. Alternatively, you may want to have a larger gathering that includes neighbours and even work colleagues.

Venue

As the party tends to follow on after the church service, it makes sense for the venue to be nearby, ideally walking distance. If you can’t get (or don’t fancy) the church hall, there's a lot to be said for choosing an informal venue such as your house or even a pub with a garden. Chances are there will be other children present, and a more a more casual setting means that they can run around and enjoy themselves, too.