Top tips from the party experts

Want to make sure your bash flows as seamlessly as a lycra catsuit? Here are the essentials of a good party, according to the experts

Rule 4: keep guests entertained -- the right way!

The expert says:

‘Make sure there's always something to do and see -- you need to keep the rhythm of a party going,’ says RAF officer Ian, who organises mess balls. ‘If the band isn't playing, then make sure the disco or line dancing has started.’

True story:

‘I organised a hen party for a mate at work,’ says Donna, 23. ‘She was marrying a policeman, so I got a strip-o-gram to come dressed as one. The trouble was, she invited her mum and some of her friends to come along too -- and they were really offended...’

Rule 5: enjoy yourself!

The expert says:

‘The best parties are those where the host or hostess can relax. Using professionals leaves you free to concentrate on the “what”, not the “how” and ensures there will be no last-minute panics or hassles,’ says Angie, from Leeds-based Select Occasions, organisers of wedding and party events. ‘We take responsibility, we don't take over!’

True story:

‘The best tip I was given before my wedding was to smile on the day and enjoy it, then my guests would too,’ says Jo, 38 from Cheltenham, and a regular party-thrower. ‘It worked! So now I try to do the same at my parties. No one feels relaxed if the hostess looks fraught.’

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