Cracking the dress codes

Fancy dress

Always a brilliant idea at the time, fancy dress needs careful handling if it's not to be a headache.

If you're the host, make sure that everyone knows that it's compulsory to dress up -- there's nothing worse than a party full of normally dressed people with the odd Cleopatra or Charlie Chaplin wandering round like a lost street performer.

If you're the guest, make sure you do dress up. We know the nightmares about turning up dressed as Mickey Mouse and finding no one else has bothered, but that's not really going to happen, is it? For a start, rope in all your friends, so there's some safety in numbers. You could also have fun gathering together beforehand to work out your costume ideas.

But if you're still not confident going the whole hog on your Piglet outfit, at least try to make some effort. If the theme's Fantasy, for instance, how about getting a pair of angel wings? Easy to whip off if you feel uncomfortable and they'll allow you to enter into the spirit of things. Most of all, remember the thought that's gone into planning the occasion -- you owe it to your host to get involved.

And finally...

The most important thing about dress codes is that you feel comfortable in whatever you're wearing. Then you'll be able to pull off your outfit without having to physically pull it all off and change into someone else. If you're stuck about what to wear, ask your friends and anyone you know who is invited. And if you're absolutely stuck, call the hosts. They'll be only too happy to advise.