Traditionally it was considered bad manners to include a gift list in your invitations, as it implies that attendance is reliant upon buying you a gift. These days however it is more acceptable and many couples are now asking for travel agent’s vouchers instead of having a traditional gift list. The simplest way to do this is to include a line such as this:
“As we already have everything we need for our home, we will not be having a traditional gift list.
Instead, if you would like to get us a gift, we would be grateful if you could make contributions towards our honeymoon.
This can be done via Thomas Cook either on their website www.thomascook.com or by visiting a branch.”
You could also consider using a poem such as:
“We’ve lived together quite a while
with all our pots and pans,
and as we don’t need homely gifts
we’ve got another plan!
We know it’s not traditional
and not the way it’s done,
but rather than a wedding list
we’d love a bit of sun.
So if you’d like to give a gift
and send us on our way
a donation to our honeymoon
would really make our day!”