Emma's answers to Getting married abroad

Question

We're getting married abroad. Should we send family and friends an invitation to join us in the country we marry? We know of four friends that have said they will come and this is probably a nice size to have. As we are holding a reception when we get home, I don't feel that it would be rude not to invite family and friends abroad?

Answer

I think the best thing that you and your partner can do at this early stage is decide who you want to share this special day with you. Once you have decided then talk to these people and express your wishes. Make an information pack for whomever you decide to invite, so they know everything that is involved, including:
Approx price
Hotels
Flights
Schedule of the day
Examples of traditional dishes
Dress code for the day
Example of cost out there
Currency

Send family and friends invitations to your reception at home before you go abroad. They could be worded like this:
Jane & (husband)
Are tying the knot in...
Upon their return they
request the honour of your presence
to help them
celebrate their wedding & commitment
to each other.
On
At
Time

If you let your friends and family know that you are planning to hold a reception in this country once you return, they may not feel so compelled to travel abroad to see you married. Either way, you should have a wonderful wedding abroad with some close family and friends and another great reception to look forward to once you are back!

Emma x