Real Engagement Stories
Read our real engagement stories and share the thoughts of memories couples as they revisit the day they became engaged!
Emma and Andy
It was 7 days until he was being posted to the Falklands for four months and he was hung-over from a night out with the lads. He booked us into our favorite restaurant as a treat as he was going away for so long. As he had a hangover, he decided not to drink, while I got merry. After the meal, he went very quiet and started to fidget. After many questions of, ‘What’s wrong?’ he replied “Shall we make this official, will you marry me?” I have never been lost for words before, and never felt so happy as when I replied ‘Yes.’ That was a month ago and every time I think about that night, it makes our time apart easier, as it always brings a smile to my face. He is definitely ‘the one’ and worth waiting for.
Louise and Matthew
I have been with Matthew for two and a half years. We had talked about getting engaged, but I never thought that I would get the proposal that I did! I was on holiday in Nice, in the South of France with some girlfriends. We’d just had a lovely dinner and were relaxing with a cocktail, when at 10.30 pm someone said my name. I turned round to find Matthew on his knee with a ring. He then said, “Will you marry me?” I couldn’t really say much as I was so shocked. I eventually said yes and found out that all the girls knew! They had been planning it for months!! We have set the date for 2004. We had our engagement party on Saturday and have been very lucky with all our presents.
I thought that romance was dead! Obviously not!!!
Colin and Jayne
I was checking my emails when i came across a very pleasant one from a guy called Colin, he was local and looking for some company. We emailed a few more times before deciding to meet for a drink. From that moment we never looked back, we became soul mates very quickly and spent every minute we could together. He moved in with me a matter of weeks later.
Having returned home from work one evening (8 September 2005), we were sitting chatting when he told me that he couldnt wait any longer and taking a beautiful ring out of his pocket he proposed to me, i immediately said yes as i couldnt imagine life without him. We had been together just over 9 weeks. Our wedding is planned for 23 June 2007.
So for all those out there, internet meetings do work!
Emma and Phil
My boyfriend Phil and I had been going out for six months when I went away on holiday to Scandinavia for a month. I’d been away for two days when he called me with a ‘surprise’ but told me I wasn’t going to find out what it was until I came back. Anyway, I bugged him and bugged him and eventually, he relented. So, with me in a hotel room in Coventry (on my way to Norway) he phoned me from a nightclub toilet in Hexham to tell me he thought we should get engaged! I spent the next three and a half weeks manically waiting to go home to see him again and when we finally met….. he gave me the ring in a service station car park! And they say romance is dead.
Katherine and Wayne
After months of hints and creeping and I guess not-so-subtle questions to guess what my response would be, Wayne finally popped the question on New Year’s Eve. He explained later that his hope to propose at midnight failed due to the fact he couldn’t wait. He had woken up early that morning and had spent hours walking about the house. Knowing that we were spending the day together, by the time I woke up, he was bursting to ask me and virtually blurted it out to a rather bleary-eyed, half asleep girlfriend!!! Luckily, he was prepared, and after a few sips of Champagne, I was able to respond with a definite yes. The best decision I’ve ever made. I just can’t wait now for all the preparations etc, and of course the actual day, some time next summer….
Bob and Norma
Bob and I decided to get engaged last May when we were staying with friends in Hedel, Holland. We went on a day trip to Amsterdam convinced that I would find the ring of my dreams. We didn’t but we did discover the Anne Frank House which we would thoroughly recommend to everyone. What a humbling experience. While shopping in our home town of Peterborough in the middle of June I did find the ring of my dreams so we ordered it straight away. We officially got engaged on 22 June 2004 and Bob slipped the ring onto my finger in the car park of a solicitors of Peterborough – what a romantic venue! Our wedding is planned for 13 August 2005 which will also be my 50 birthday so it’s a double celebration.
Abigail and Lee
We were in Prague on a lovely romantic weekend when, on our final day we took a stroll along the river where he stopped, pulled out a gorgeous diamond ring and asked me to marry him! He would’ve got down on one knee but he had been up all night talking to the ‘big white telephone’ (he had managed to catch food poisoning!) and didn’t feel very well at all. I wanted to go and celebrate straight away with a bottle of Champagne, as I was so excited. I’d waited 5 years for this but the only thing he could stomach was a cafe latte! So we celebrated in a side street cafe drinking lattes and I couldn’t have felt happier! The wedding is planned for next August.
Vikki and Jonathan
I met Jonathan in the ‘Walkabout’ Australian bar in my home town of Liverpool. I knew I wasn’t after a local lad, so when Jonathan approached me and started chatting to me in the most sexy Yorkshire accent I knew I’d met someone special. Two years later we went to Italy to visit his sister, Joanna. Jonathan suggested that we took a few days out to visit Venice which is a half hour train journey from Joanna’s house. He knew that I had always wanted to go there so I agreed. We got to Venice and spent the whole day sight seeing the beautiful city. I did have thoughts that this would be a lovely setting for a proposal but as we hadn’t discussed it for a while nor did he have a ring (I packed all the luggage and hand luggage) I knew it was not going to happen. And it didn’t. The next day we carried on with the sight seeing. Jonathan mentioned that he’d read about a cafe in St Marks Square that dates back to the fifteen hundreds and had some original artwork and decor and it would be nice to go and visit so I agreed. What I did not realise that it was also quoted as being one of the most expensive places to eat and drink in Venice. When we got there and I looked at the prices and made a big fuss about how expensive it was and how we should go somewhere cheaper. So we compromised and he just ordered some drinks at the bar while I went to the loo. When I got back I had the most delicious tangerine champagne cocktail waiting for me served with olives. When we had finished, he suggested we go for a walk round the square as the lights were lovely at night. As we walked around there was a man selling roses. Jonathan took a big handful of pink ones from the man and gave them to me and kissed me and gave me a big hug. As I hugged him I could feel him shaking. Suddenly my stomach flipped…. Venice…. St Marks Square… Ancient Cafe……Cocktails…..Roses…..I knew! He got hold of my hand and walked us to the centre of St Marks Square. He took a deep breath and said…….. “I love you you know, you make me so happy. I could never imagine my life without you and I hope that one day you will marry me” At this point he got down on one knee and pulled out a big solitare diamond ring. I typically burst into tears and then said yes! If you want to know how he did it…..he had hidden the ring box in some socks that he stuffed into his shoes that were in the suitcase. I remember him giving me the shoes to put in the suitcase whilst packing and he said “I’ve stuffed some socks in there to save space!” We are getting married on 6th August 2005 and, to keep in with the tradition of where we met, we’re going to Australia for four weeks for our honeymoon.
Yvonne and Sean
My name is Yvonne and I am a flight attendant. My (then) boyfriend Sean lives most of the year in Los Angeles. My schedule was to fly to LA on 6 October, 1999. Sean phoned me that morning from LA to make sure everything was OK and to see that my flight had not been changed. He told me that when I arrive in LA, I was just to go to the crew hotel and he would pick me up there. (This I found odd, as I always do that anyway.) On arrival into LA, I proceeded through immigration and customs, as always, with the crew (21 of us). Where we go to get the crew bus at the airport, we have to go up a flight of escalators. I was the third last crew member up the stairs. I could see something going on at the top of the stairs, but I didn’t know what it was. When I got to the top, there was, to my surprise, someone standing in a FULL SHINY METAL SUIT OF ARMOUR (breast plates, helmet, the lot) and they were holding a placard with my name on it. Straight away, I thought, this is a joke – Sean’s either sent me a strip-o-gram or he’s dressed up for a kids’ party. He took the helmet off and it was him. I asked him what he was doing dressed up and he flipped the placard over and it said, “Will you marry me?” I almost peed my pants because in 3 1/2 years, we had never once spoken about marriage. I was so excited, speechless, breathless and shocked and I’m quite sure I could think of many more words to describe how I felt. He had actually hired a horse too, but the stable people wouldn’t let him take it to the airport for it might get scared, so he drove for an hour along LA freeways with the full suit of armour on, on his motorbike. Even the cops were laughing at him and giving him the thumbs up!! He is the most loving, caring, madder than a march hare man I have ever known and I love him with every little mm of my heart. The real strange thing about all this is that after it, my mother reminded me that when I was a little girl, I said that I would marry a knight in shining armour, just like a fairytale, and that I certainly am doing. From the happiest, most loved fairy princess in the world. Yvonne xxxx
Zoë and DT
The proposal was originally planned for Millennium Eve, as was the case with so many couples, but DT decided there was a better way to do it.He took me out onto the cliffs to watch the sun rise. We must have looked a strange couple that morning, dressed in our finery, but smothered in blankets as we sat on a bench looking over the finest panoramic view of the coast in that area.As the sun rose, we were able to see the first rays struggling from behind the cloud-laden sky, highlighting the wall of mist that was slowly rolling in from the sea and would cover the cliffs in a few hours time. As the sky turned a beautiful shade of pink and yellow, DT dropped down on his knee and, holding out a ring that I had bought months ago (the actual one was still in the shop being made), he asked me to be his wife. The rest, as they say, is history…
Vicky and Dan
I met Dan just over a year ago, through friends in a nightclub. After about 8 months we decided to buy a house together, which I’m still waiting to move into. After a busy day out shopping we were lying in bed watching TV when Dan just came out with, “So will you marry me or what” ! He then gave me my engagement ring and of course I said YES! We are currently planning our wedding for June 2004 which so far I am enjoying. At the moment Dan has been sent out to Iraq to peace keep for 6 months, I’m just hoping and praying that he will come home safe for our wedding.
Sharon and Simon
We were at a New Years Eve party at my parents and just after the stroke of midnight Simon pulled out a ring from his pocket. As the fireworks were going off on our street he got down on one knee and proposed, bearing in mind that we had both been married before and neither of us were in a hurry to remarry. Of course we had talked about it and said that one day we might. Simon proposed in front of all our friends and family. It was perfect… just the way I would have wanted it to happen. Thank you Simon. You have made me the happiest woman in the world. XXXX.
Jo and Steve
Here’s the story of how Steve and I got engaged. I used to work with his friend, and so I had gone out with his friends outside work a couple of times. Then one night we had a beach party. Only my work colleague and Steve showed up in shorts, while the rest of us were dressed for a night on the town! We started seeing each other from then and moved in together after six months…three years later we have been through a lot together, including my completion of my degree two years ago and his father dying of cancer. The proposal took place in a five star hotel in the Cotswolds after a lovely meal by a roaring log fire.
Rachel and Haydyn
Haydyn and I had talked about for a while. We had bought the ring with the intention of getting engaged on Bonfire night – but Haydyn’s sister got there before us. So with a diamond ring in the draw, Christmas soon came round. My birthday is the week before Christmas Eve and so with my breakfast and the single red rose that he always buys me, he said, “Well, I suppose you can wear the ring now then” and that was it. Two years on, we are planning the wedding for August 2001 and I could not be happier.
Ellen and Matthew
Mathew and I were on a self-drive holiday in South Africa in October 2000. Part of the trip was a five-day stay at Cape Town, during which we ventured up Table Mountain, late one afternoon. Whilst enjoying the view Mathew said “so shall we get married then?” To which I replied, “well only if you get on one knee and propose properly”, which he did! (Which was more of a surprise). This was a very romantic gesture from Mat who is usually as romantic as a wet fish! Anyway, it was very special and we stayed on the mountain until sunset. We have set a date for August 2002 ten years after we started going out together.
Michelle and Rob
My boyfriend proposed to me on Christmas Day. In the morning, his mum and dad gave us a lift to my mum and dad’s house. We all went in and were gathered in the lounge when Rob suddenly announced that there was a reason why his mum and dad were there and he brought out this box and opened it up.I did not know what to say and got really choked up. He couldn’t pop the question because as soon as I started crying, he got a bit choked and couldn’t speak. It was really lovely and moving. A special day to remember.
Maria and Jarmo
When I met my partner four years ago, he proposed after only three weeks. We postponed one wedding in 1998 and put away our engagement rings for safe keeping. Although life has not been easy, we’ve been really happy together so, I did the Leap Year thing, but it wasn’t really romantic.We were cooking dinner (together!) and I just said, “So, are we getting married or what?”He replied, “I guess so” and disappeared upstairs, only to return with our rings. We exchanged engagement rings standing in the kitchen, with the pasta boiling over and the sauce sticking to the pan! Planning for a Finnish Wedding in June 2001.
Eleanor and Paul
We got engaged whilst on holiday in Thailand. Sounds romantic? Read on… It was in a Japanese Karaoke Bar, at 1am in the morning, in our hotel which happened to be in the red light district of Bangkok, to the sound of ‘Feelings’ sung by a drunken Japanese man. I still don’t know if this is what inspired the proposal! On my saying yes, we ordered Champagne, following which the bar staff decided to play all the most cheesey love songs they had. It was quite romantic in a very cheesy, funny sort of way. And we had the mother of all hangovers when we had to fly out Bangkok airport only five hours later!
Becki and Chris
My husband-to-be took me away to Euro Disney for a romantic weekend!During our visit, we decided to go on Space Mountain, which, as many people know, is a very fast ride in complete blackness, which means you are unable to see what twists and turns are coming up next. We had great fun, as you could imagine, but then just before we were about to twist upside-down, Chris, my boyfriend at the time (little did I know this would soon be changing) shouted at the top of his voice, “WILL YOU MARRY ME????”Well, let’s just say the wedding is now booked for 19 August 2000.What a way to start!
Charlotte and Dennis
It was an absolutely perfect and most memorable time. The weather was fabulous and the hotel was perfect and so romantic. We were sitting in an outdoor jacuzzi on a roof terrace. Out of the blue Dennis looked into my eyes and asked me to marry him. It was the perfect moment. I love him so much I did not hesitate to say yes! Dennis asked me on 28 April 2003, the day after his birthday, and a day we will never forget for the rest of our lives. The picture was taken in Nice where we got engaged.
Claire and Christopher
I knew about the ring because I’d chosen it, but he had told me that as it was being made and wouldn’t be ready for a few months. One Saturday several weeks later he booked our favourite restaurant and a very exclusive hotel about 40 miles away, but as I was feeling a bit ill I decided I didn’t want to go. He put up some resistance but agreed in the end (I didn’t know he was going to propose). The next morning I woke up and found he had put a little jewellery box in my hand while I was sleeping ‐ my engagement ring. It was such a surprise I cried and it was far better than any swanky restaurant anyway.
Emily and André
We had gone to The Castle Hotel in Windsor to see in the new Millennium in style and had enjoyed a four-course meal, string quartet and plenty of Champagne by the time midnight came. The bagpipes were playing and everyone was cheering just after midnight when André pulled me to one side and asked if I would marry him! I immediately said yes and shared the news with our friends who were all thrilled and insisted on starting the toasts all over again!I will never forget the moment as it was so romantic; bagpipes, Champagne, fireworks, the lot. Now all we have to think about is the wedding…
Farisayi and Charles
I’m getting married to Charles Knott on the 7th August. I love him very much and he has shown me what true love is. We are both looking forward to this day and we are planning to have a good time. My parents are coming from Africa to witness this wonderful event.What makes it even more special to me is that Charles has had no problems in partaking in some of the traditions of my country, such as paying a dowry to my parents before we can have our wedding. He did exactly that and now, according to my culture, we are husband and wife already!
Jan and Andy
My name is Jan and my guy, Andy, proposed to me on the beach. It was in Cyprus on 11th Aug 2002 that, with the sunset behind us, he went down on one knee to propose. I am over the moon. Now how romantic is that? Although it was unexpected, I had broached the subject before. He had said he’d needed time and that we would marry…one day. We have now been together since January 2000 and living together for 18 months. Our families are naturally as over the moon as we are. We plan to marry in August of next year.
Jodie and Adam
The most wonderful man in the world proposed to me and made me the happiest person on the planet. I’ve had a brilliant time organising everything and he’s been just as involved as I have. I’m so excited for our big day and not a bit nervous. Adam has just been a tower of strength to me over the last couple of months when my mother died suddenly. The wedding seemed so irrelevant at that point, but Adam supported me through the most difficult time of my life and made me realise that I can be happy again. This has made me even more determined to have the best wedding day ever and I can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with this wonderful man.
Kery and Austin
We hiked 6 miles up a mountain. When we got to the top, Austin had me sit on a big rock. He took off my shoes and socks and handed me a little bible and had me read the scripture where Jesus washed His disciples feet. He pulled out of his backpack a bottle of soap and some water bottles and started washing my feet and telling me what kind of husband and father he wanted to be to me and our children one day. Then he went for what I thought was going to be a towel but instead pulled out a ring box and asked me to be his wife.
Kerry and Paul
I met Paul nearly three years ago through a mutual friend and we have lived together for two of those years. In September 2003 we went on holiday to New Jersey in America to stay with his aunty and uncle. We spent the day sightseeing in New York and whilst driving round the most amazing city in the world in an open top car, Paul turned to me and said: “Let’s get married!” I agreed once I realised he wasn’t joking. We then spent the rest of the afternoon diamond shopping on Fifth Avenue. It was a dream come true and we’re getting married on 11 September 2004.
Liane and Steve
Steve and I spent Christmas 1999 in southern France, near Bordeaux. On the night of 27th December, a hurricane hit the region, devastating the area and cutting off the electricity and telephones.We were blissfully unaware of the devastation caused. The lights had just gone out and we were sitting in the dark with a roaring log fire and a glass of vino when Steve popped the question. It was very romantic! To end our holiday, we spent the Millennium under the Eiffel Tower, slugging Champagne, grateful that we had escaped the worst of the storm, blissfully happy about our engagement.
Lisa and Stuart
After quite a hectic year, Stuart insisted we went away for a couple of days. So being keen walkers, we decided to go walking in Derbyshire. We arrived on the campsite on the 1st of July 2002 to a very chilly, wet and windy welcome, but still decided to stay. That evening we went out to dinner, and Stuart seemed to be deep in thought and kept looking at me with what seemed to me as if I’d got something in my hair. On the 2nd of July we walked up Kinder, some very nice countryside. During this walk we had brilliant sunshine, a little rain, and as we reached the top the clouds came in. We decided this was a good time to stop for lunch, and as we did so Stuart started a conversation about love and life. The next thing I knew he was on one knee asking me to marry him! I was a little surprised. To start with I thought that it was just a normal conversation about the future, so I replied with “Of course I would, all you have to do is ask me!” So he asked me again, to which I said yes! He later remarked that out in the countryside would be the only place I would believe him! The family was also a little surprised, many of them thinking that we would possibly just keep living together. Following our announcement there was a frenzy of activity culminating in numerous engagement parties happening as we told people. We are mid-way through our wedding plans and are getting married on 23rd August 2003, and are extremely happy! It is a pleasure to share our story with you.
Sarah and Stuart
I proposed to my boyfriend Stuart last week. Sadly, I wasn’t able to do it on the 29th, but did do it on the 1st of March. I wrote him a poem and gave it to him 400ft up in the London Eye. He says I only did it up there so he couldn’t run away!!!! Luckily, he said yes. Then I took him on a dinner river-boat cruise up the Thames, that was lovely and well worth doing.I always said I would never propose to him, but the urge over took me and now, I am glad I did it.