Written by Paula Jones Last updated: August 9, 2006
I met Charlie when I was 16 and we have now been together for 15 years.
We are both 29.
He proposed when we were 18. He had booked a meal for us; he met me from work and we went back to my mum’s place so I could get changed. When I was ready I went into the front room, where he was down on one knee. He began to speak and… my mum called me! I asked him to wait there and I went to my mum, when I went back in to the front room he began to speak again and again my mum called. I giggled, and went to see what my mum wanted, and again went back to Charlie; bless him the nerves were now showing, and again my mum called me into the kitchen! I went in and this time I said, “Please mum, Charlie is trying to propose, can we have a minute?” She left us to it then, and Charlie managed to ask me without further interruptions. I was over the moon. We headed off for our meal together and I asked him why he hadn’t waited to ask me at the restaurant and he said, it had been his plan, but he was so nervous and couldn’t wait to ask that it seemed like the right time…
We did have hen and stag celebrations and I went to a Mexican restaurant. There were twenty two of us so we stayed there all night and had a fantastic time. Charlie and fifteen friends went to School Dinners, then on to a club after and he felt a lot worse then I did the next day…
Charlie was brilliant; we went through everything together, all our decisions (apart from my dress) were joint.
I did use Confetti to plan, I found it so helpful. Being able to speak to other brides about ideas that worked and ideas that didn’t was fab.
No, I didn’t.
I did buy Confetti products, I bought most of my table decorations, table cameras and invitations from the store.
I loved my dress; it was by Rosetta Nicolini and was called Michelle and I bought it from House of Fraser. It was a beautiful one-piece with a corset back which was stunning! It had blue crystals around the top and around the corset with some down one side.
I had two bridesmaids and one flower girl. I had my two sisters as bridesmaids and my daughter as our flower girl; they all looked so beautiful on the day.
Charlie had two best men; they have been his best friends since they were all very small.
It was a religious ceremony.
It was in St. Bartholomew’s Church in Streatham Vale.
In the Coulsdon Manor Hotel in Coulsdon.
We had a Beauford 1930s style Open Tourer, which was just perfect, and for our guests we hired a bus.
We had 120 in the day and a further 30 for the evening.
Our main colour was light blue but we used this with cream. My Dad had died two years before the wedding, and blue had been his favorite colour.
With blue cornflower roses on the table name cards and cream roses, blue and cream cameras and confetti.
Yes we did. My new surname is now Jelley, so we put light blue Jelly Bellies in a cream box with light blue ribbon round it.
Our florist was my best friend, she was fantastic and did everything that I loved. I love white roses and we had them everywhere! My bouquet was filled with beautiful roses and greenery held together with fabric which was from my wedding dress. My sisters had roses with peonies and my daughter held a bag which matched her dress and was filled with roses. The church had two massive displays at the front and roses with greenery wrapped around the pew ends. The reception had table trees which were covered again with roses and the top table had roses and greenery all along the front of the table. The cake table had scattered rose petals and we had roses around the entrance to the room and up the staircase. The smell of roses in the air was amazing!
We were able to choose all that we ate. We had vegetable soup and a fresh roll to start, with roast chicken and all the trimmings for the main followed by strawberries and cream for dessert.
A friend of ours made our cake and it was amazing how much detail was on it. It was a three-tier cake with roses made from icing all around it.
We hired a magician for the daytime for the children and had a disco for the evening.
We asked for Next vouchers.
A number of us stayed at the hotel where we held the reception and we all shared breakfast together the next morning; it was really wonderful. And then the following day my husband, our daughter and I went to Cuba for two weeks.
I loved every single second, but I have two fond memories – the first was seeing the smile on Charlie’s face, he had said that he wouldn’t watch me walking down the aisle, but didn’t take his eyes off me and was very tearful! And the second was when our daughter said a bidding prayer which was dedicated to our fathers… she said "We pray for those of our dear ones who have departed this life, may God give them eternal rest…" There wasn’t a dry eye in the house and we are so proud of her, she’s only 4 and read so clearly…
No, we had been so lucky with everything.
I wouldn’t change a thing about my day, it was perfect. I would say make sure you take a moment out where you simply take everything in. I was told that and it was really lovely just to look at everyone sharing and enjoying the day.