Debbie and Simon Real Weddings

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Debbie and Simon
How and when did you meet?
We met via a chat site on the internet. Simon sent me a message saying ‘hello’ in April of last year and we just casually said hello to each other, passing the time of day. Simon is a Royal Marine Commando and a short while after he contacted me he got sent to the Gulf. We exchanged phone numbers just before he left and he called and asked if he could come and visit me in Northern Ireland when he came back. We lost touch when he was away, I did everything to try and get hold of him but failed miserably. I eventually managed to track him down in September the day after he got back from the Gulf. He had 3 weeks off work but were unable to meet as I had a holiday booked at the time. We were going to sort out something when he returned to work, but unfortunately when he got back to work.. 3 days later he was packed of to Sierra Leone. We became very close during his time away there, and finally on the 21st November Simon came to see me. The minute i set eyes on him at the airport I knew he was the one for me. 2 days later he took me looking for engagement rings, a week later we had booked our wedding.

How old are you both?
im 35, simon is 29

Where, when and how did he (or you!) propose?
He proposed on the 26th January 2007.. my engagement ring had to be hand made so it took a while. He whisked me off to a romantic hotel by the coast and got down on one knee in the hotel room.

Did you have hen and stag celebrations? If so, what did you do?
I went to Belfast dressed in a vintage wedding dress from Ebay, my friends were dressed in the dowdiest bridesmaid dresses we were able to find, complete with plastic flowers. Simon went out in his hometown in Skegness dresses in a female police officer outfit complete with black tights!!!!

How did your groom help with the wedding planning?
He only gets home at weekends as he is based in Plymouth so wasn’t able to help. he did organise the cake though.

Did you use confetti to plan your wedding? If so, how did the website help you?
I read through different articles for tips.

Did you buy any confetti products for your wedding? If so, did you visit a store, buy online or by mail order?
I got wedding invitations via an ad on your site

Tell us about your outfit, and where you bought it
My dress is Levante from the Pronovias 2007 dream range. Ivory with beaded detail on a heart-shaped bodice, net on one side and a train. Shoes were Benjamin Adams, I had a fingertip veil with lots of crystal detail, my tiara came from Hong Kong, my dress from local store. Simon wore his uniform.

Did you have bridesmaids? If so, who did you choose and what did they wear?
I had a friend from work and a relative as a flower girl. They wore gold dresses from same store as my gown.

Who did your groom choose for his best man and ushers, and what did they wear?
Simon’s best man was his oldest friend from his home town, his ushers were his brother and brother in law, page boy was his little nephew

Did you have a civil or religious ceremony?

Where did you hold your ceremony?
Edinburgh castle

Where did you hold your reception?
Edinburgh castle

Did you have any special wedding transport?
We had a Bentley as wedding car and a Jaguar for the bridesmaids

How many guests did you invite to your wedding, and did you have a separate evening guest list?
52 adults, 4 children and approx 20 more for evening do

Did your reception have a particular theme in terms of colour or style?
I had to choose my colours so as not to clash with the red on Simon’s uniform

How did you incorporate this in to your table settings?
We had red rose petals scattered on the tables, with ivory table cloths

Did you give your guests favours?
Yes, heart shaped bath bombs and soaps in a gold organza bag.. (a couple of guests tried to eat them!!!)

Describe your flowers (bouquets and table decorations). Who was your florist?
Our florist was Pollination in Edinburgh, I had a hand tied bouquet of red grand prix roses, the guys had red grand prix rose button holes, my chief bridesmaid had mango callas and the flowergirl had orange gerberas. We had red roses and thistles on top of the cake plus red rose petals scattered on the other 2 layers. The alter/top-table flowers had all three and the thistles incorporated into it.

What did you choose to have on your menu? Did you have an outside caterer or did your venue handle the catering?
Our menu consisted of pineapple citrus sorbet with peppered strawberries and mulled wine syrup, main course was garlic and herb crumbed chicken served on ribbons of vegetables and parsley potatoes, wedding cake for dessert followed by tea/coffee and lemon meringue kisses. The venue did the catering, we had no choice but to use them

What did you choose for your wedding cake, and who made it?
a German Konditormeister called Falko from Edinburgh did the cake. The bottom layer was chocolate truffle,the middle was sponge with white wine and grape cream, and the top layer was black forest gateau, all covered with white chocolate shavings

Did you have any entertainment during the day or evening?
We had a string quartet playing as guests arrived and during and after the ceremony, and a DJ in the evening playing 70′s and 80′s music

Did you have a gift list? If so, who did you have your list with?
No, everyone gave us money

Where did you spend your first night and honeymoon? Who did you book your honeymoon with?
We have not honeymooned yet, we are spending 2 weeks in the Maldives booked with Thompson

What was your most memorable moment of the day?
Seeing my handsome husband-to-be waiting for me to join him at the top of the aisle. Just as i was arriving at the castle and getting out of the car, my boss was filming me with his camcorder, he fell over in the bushes in front of everyone.. I couldn’t stop laughing, it really settled my nerves

Did you experience any ‘nightmare’ moments in the run up to your wedding or on the day?
None, it all went smoothly.

Is there anything you would do differently, or any advice you would give to other brides?
Nope, just to enjoy the moment, I wish we could do it all again. I live in Northern Ireland so I found and contacted all my suppliers via the internet, I would have been lost without it.

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