Written by Anyonita Green Last updated: May 20, 2015
Traditionally, brides don’t give speeches at the reception, but there’s no reason why you can’t! Shirk with tradition and if you feel so inclined, give your own speech on your Big Day! We know that finding the right words to express everything you feel can be difficult, especially on such an emotionally-charged day! Here are four sample speeches for brides to get you started.
“I know it’s unusual for a bride to give a speech, but those who know we well, understand that the chance of me being able to keep my mouth shut while everyone else gives a speech is pretty slim! Mum and Dad, what can I say? You’ve seen me grow up; you’ve helped develop and mature me into the person that I am today and I hope that after (insert your age), all of your hard work as been worthwhile. I love you both deeply.
“I’d like to especially thank my gorgeous bridesmaids! You all look so stunning–that’s why I’ve sat you as far away from me as possible! Can’t be upstaged on my wedding day! A huge thank you to (insert name of best man) for dragging my new husband/wife kicking and screaming here today. I hope I’m only joking!
“Most of all, I’d like to thank my new husband/wife for asking me to be his/her Mrs and for going through with it! I cannot believe I have a husband/wife! You came into my life and completely changed it. I adore you and I would like to thank you for your patience and understanding. And definitely thanks for putting up with my tears, tantrums all those bridezilla moments! You are my rock and I cannot wait to spend the rest of my life being your Mrs.
“Last but not least, thank you to each and every one of you for sharing our special day with us! A wedding can happen anywhere and at any time, but it can only be a true celebration when all the people you love are thereto share it with you! You have made our day all that more special. Please raise your glasses and drink a toast … to dear friends and family.”
“Guests, family and friends; I am delighted the you found the time to join (insert name of your husband/wife) and me today as we celebrate our love. Being surrounded by you all has made such a difference to our us and we have been overwhelmed by your kindness, generosity and how absolutely stunning you all look!
“To my new in-laws, thank your bring (insert name of your husband/wife). Without you, we wouldn’t be here to day. (Insert name of your husband/wife) and I are two people now with one path before us and we are both grateful for the people and experiences that have shaped us and brought us to each other.
“(Insert name of chief bridesmaid), you are my oldest and closest friend. We have been through the good, the bad and the ugly together. Your friendship has been a source of strength to me over the years and I want to say that I feel honoured to have you standing with me today. Thank you so much.
“Mum and Dad, thank you for everything. You are my model for what marriage should be. Throughout my life I’ve witnessed many years of laughter, tears, compromise, understanding, dependability and above all, unconditional love. From you both I learnt that marriage is about patience and acceptance. It’s about knowing when to say ‘I’m sorry’ and when to offer forgiveness. It’s about being together through the good times and never giving up during the bad. I hope that what (insert name of your husband/wife) I have is just as special.
“And to you, my love, my heart.Where do I start? I never thought I would be standing here today with your ring on my finger, sharing your name. But I am so glad that I am. In you, I have my best friend, my love and my life partner. Thank you for your love, friendship and support and the joy you have brought into my life. With you by my side, I have so much hope for the future and I look forward to making our dreams reality and sharing in this incredible journey with you.
“To everyone, please enjoy the rest of the day and join me in a toast … to our beautiful guests!”
“Tradition says women are to be seen and not heard. Especially at a wedding. You know me; I’m breaking tradition and having my say! First of all, I’d like to thank my new set of parents. You have raised (insert name of husband/wife) to be the most kind-hearted, loving, patient and considering person I could hope to call my husband/wife. For this, I am forever grateful. I couldn’t ask for a more thoughtful, devoted and selfless husband/wife. And as cheesy as it may sound, marrying you today has been the happiest day of my life. I only hope that over the coming years, I can live up to your expectations and continue to make you happy.
“I also a huge thank you to Mum and Dad for helping out in so many ways to make this day special. In return, I assure you, especially ou, Dad, that only the finest nursing home awaits you! As much as I would threaten to call Childline, swear that I was adopted or dare you to ground me, I know that it was only because you loved me so much that you would ask me where I was going, with whom and what time I would be home. Growing up, I’m glad that you loved me enough to say ‘no’ even though you knew I would hate you for it. Between and I especially, Dad, those were the most difficult battles of all, but I’m glad you won. Because in the end, I did too.
“Mum, you loved me enough to stand over me for two hours whilst I cleaned my room. A job that would have taken you fifteen minutes! You loved me enough to insist that I save up and buy new things for myself, and even though there were lots of tantrums, sulks and silent treatments then, I understand now the lessons you were teaching me. You have made me a dependent woman and I have you to thank for that. If I am half the wife to (insert name of husband/wife) as you are to Dad, I shall consider myself lucky.
“On the subject of family, I just wanted to stay how much I wish my grandparents were here to enjoy this day and to embarrass me with stories best left forgotten and impart some important piece of advice that would be simple yet desperately relevant. I know that wherever they are, they are looking down on us all and smiling and the candle burning here on our table is in memory of them.
“Thank you to my husband/wife for asking/saying yes! I cannot wait to start this journey with you and start a family of our own! You are the light of my life and the best thing ever to happen to me. I am so lucky to be your Mrs and so thankful that you chose me!
“Sadly, some of our friends and family were unable to attend, so I’d like to make a toast to their honour! Please lift your glasses and drink …to absent friends!”
“Those of you who know me well will not be surprised that I have something to say. Those of you who don’t know me so well will soon realise that I can’t keep quiet for more than 3 minutes at a time!
“To echo all of the fantastic speeches before me, thank you to everybody who helped with the preparations for today! You know who you are and you are very special people. I am grateful to have your help, support and friendship in my life.
“Particularly, I’d like to thank the creators of Pinterest, without whom this wedding could never have taken place! I’d also like to thank my boss for pretending not to notice that I’d turned my office into a wedding stuff delivery point!
“Thanks to my big brother/sister for his/her reassuring calmness, his/her strange humour and his/her good advice at time when I really, really thought I would go pop! I owe you big time.
“Special thanks must also go to the hens, for making my last weekend as a singleton exceptional. The food, the fun, the tasks…To be honest that’s all I can say about that because ‘what happens on the hen, stays on the hen!’
“And of course, thanks to all of you for taking the time to come here today to see (insert name of husband/wife) legally agree to keep me in the manner to which I have become accustomed until he/she is dead! In all seriousness, (insert name of husband/wife), I am so pleased and proud to be your Mrs. You are the greatest thing in my life. You are my stability, my love and my best friend. Every moment with you is amazing and I cannot believe we get to be together forever.
“And to you, our honoured guests. Thank you for the contributions you have made to make our day special. Thank you also for showering and getting dressed in respectable clothing and attending our wedding! We hope that you enjoy yourselves this evening!
“And finally, I would like to finish with a quote by Emily Bronte who said of marriage: “Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same.” Emily ‐ I totally agree. Thank you.”
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