What you need to know about the wedding traditions of every faith Different faiths have different and fascinating wedding traditions. From preparation beforehand to what to wear at the ceremony,…
Written by Paula Jones Last updated: October 10, 2006
If you are attending a Hindu, Muslim or Sikh traditional ceremony for the first time, it’s likely that you’ll be unsure about what is expected of you as a guest. Follow our guide to participate with composure, grace and style…
If you’re invited to the actual ceremony, you don’t have to wear a sari or an ethnic dress, although it will be greatly appreciated if you do. Modest dress is the order of the day; bare shoulders, plunging necklines and short skirts will be out of place at a religious venue. Besides, you may be required to sit cross‐legged on the floor and this will prove difficult in tight or short clothing.
Generally pure white and black are avoided at the actual religious ceremony. Although bright colours are considered most auspicious at South Asian weddings, pastels are also acceptable in the summer. Try not to wear bright red as this is traditionally reserved for the bride and you wouldn’t want to outshine her on her special day!
Several ceremonies, such as a Sikh wedding, will require you to cover your head when you are in the temple. Carry a long scarf or a pashmina stole, which can also be used to cover up bare shoulders or arms, if necessary. Men usually wear the head covering provided at the temple or carry a large white handkerchief to place over their head.
Most religious places will require you to take off your shoes and place them in the designated space before you enter the sanctified area. While some places may require you to be barefooted, usually wearing socks or stockings is acceptable.
Some places of worship require women and men to sit separately on different sides of the room. Just observe the seating when you enter the room or ask someone if you’re unsure. If you’re the only woman sitting amidst many men or vice versa, you’re probably not sitting in the right section!
Check before you get clicking during a ceremony. Mostly it should be fine, but during some of the rituals, particularly in a Hindu ceremony, even the official photographer may be barred in order to avoid distracting with the flash of the camera.
During a Sikh ceremony held at a gurudwara (Sikh temple), you may be given blessed food called ‘karah prashad’, which is made with flour, sugar and ghee (clarified butter). It is received in cupped hands and eaten by transferring it into one hand and eating it with the other. You can ask for a very small portion if you are unsure of whether you will be able to eat much of it. Putting it into a small plastic bag to eat later is acceptable, however it would cause offence to refuse it or throw it away. Carry some paper tissues for cleaning the ghee from your hands afterwards.Page: 1 2 Next >