My husband-to-be is divorced. I am dreading having his family at the wedding because they're still extremely loyal to his first wife. What shall I do?
Try not to let this spoil your happy day. If your fiance's parents are coming to celebrate your wedding day then they should do just that and there should be no mention of his first wife. This is your day and your fiance's parents will become a part of your family. It is their choice to keep in touch with his ex wife and it should not mean they disapprove of you if they do so. Try not to compare yourself with her. He chose you! I am sure that in time they will come to love you almost as much as your fiance does.