Lifestyle and Relationships

Finding The Words – Your Party Invitations

Feeling tongue-tied when it comes to your party invitations? Follow our sample wording to get started!

 

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If you’re in need of a little inspiration for your party invitation wording, we’re here to help.

Read on for invitation wording for the following special occasions:

  • naming day
  • christening/baptism
  • engagement
  • bar mitzvah/bat mitzvah
  • 18th/21st birthday
  • anniversary
  • cocktail party

Naming day

You are invited to join in the happiness of

…(parents’ names)…

in celebrating the birth of

(baby’s name),

born on…

weighing…

on…

at…

RSVP

You are invited to celebrate the

birth and naming of

…(baby’s name)…

on… time…

at…

RSVP

Christening/baptism

We request the honour of your presence at

the baptism of

…(baby’s name)…

on… time…

at…

RSVP

We have been blessed.

Please join us at the Christening of

…(baby’s name)..

on… time…

at…

Followed by drinks

at…

RSVP

Engagement

Mr & Mrs… cordially invite you to attend

the Engagement Party of their daughter

…(daughter’s name)…

to

…(fiancé’s name)…

on… time…

at…

RSVP

…(couple’s names)…are tying the knot!

Join them in celebrating their

engagement

on… time…

at…

RSVP

Bar mitzvah/bat mitzvah

There’s no standard etiquette for a Bar or Bat Mitzvah invitation but such an occasion is a religious one, and celebrates the attainment of religious maturity, so the tone and wording should be in keeping with the formality of the occasion.

Here are some examples:

Mr and Mrs Benjamin Cohen

Cordially invite you to worship with them

On the occasion of the

Bar Mitzvah of their son

Samuel

on… time…

at… Synagogue [name]

[address]

The service will be followed by lunch

at…

RSVP

Mr & Mrs…

request the pleasure of your company at

the Bar Mitzvah of their son

…(son’s name)…

on… time…

at…

followed by a reception

at…

RSVP

Mr & Mrs…

request the pleasure of your company at

the Bat Mitzvah of their daughter

…(daughter’s name)…

on… time…

at…

followed by a reception

at…

RSVP

18th /21st birthday

Mr & Mrs… (parents’ surname)

request the pleasure of your company

to celebrate their daughter

…(girl’s name)…

coming of age

on… time…

at…

RSVP

…(birthday boy’s name)…is having an … (18th/21st)… birthday party

on… time…

at…

RSVP

It’s time to party! …(girl’s name)… has turned… (18/21)

Come and help her celebrate

on… time…

at…

RSVP

Party time! …(birthday boy’s name)… has got the key of the door

You are invited to join in the celebrations

on… time…

at…

RSVP

Anniversary

Mr & Mrs…

request the pleasure of your company

at the celebration of their

…(number)… Anniversary

on… time…

at…

RSVP

…(couple’s first names)…

invite you to help them

celebrate their…(number)… Wedding Anniversary

on… time…

at…

RSVP

Cocktail party

Like an ‘at home’ invitation, a cocktail party invitation indicates that no formal dinner will be served, although it is usual to serve canapés or even a light buffet. Cocktail parties are usually held earlier in the evening and it can be inconvenient for guests not to know whether food will be served or not. Stating ‘cocktail party’ on the invitation is an excellent way to convey to your guests that they should make other dinner plans.

An invitation to a cocktail party could say:

Laura and Peter Cockroft

Invite you for cocktails

On…

Time…

At…

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