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First Valentine’s Day as a Married Couple Checklist

While you and your spouse will probably have spent many a Valentine’s Day loved up when you were dating or engaged, there’s something a bit more special about your first Valentine’s Day as a married couple! We’ve put together this handy checklist to help you arrange an unforgettable day your spouse will treasure!

Your first Valentine's Day as a Married Couple


 2 Months Before

  • Purchase personalised gifts from for him or her
    Choose a personalised picture frame and pop in a photo of the two of you from your wedding day or a candid snap from your honeymoon
    Alternatively, have some of our champagne flutes personalised with your names, your wedding date or nicknames
  • Brainstorm your ideal Valentine’s Day date scenario; don’t forget to think about what your spouse would want, too!
  • Tell your spouse that you’re planning a big who-ha for Valentine’s Day so they don’t go overboard with their plans. Remind them that next year, it’ll be their turn to plan the evening.

Personalised Valentine's Gifts from

From left: Personalised Silver Picture Frame and Venice Gold Toasting Flutes

1 Month Before

  • If you’re the next Jamie Oliver or Nigella Lawson, set your menu and look int sourcing the finest ingredients; alternatively, make a reservation at the trendiest restaurant near you
  • Scour your local music store or app for the best mood music; a little Barry White never went amiss!
  • If you’re planning to amaze your partner outside your home, book your venue now
  • Arrange sitters for the kids and/or pets
  • Order flowers, preferably some that reflect those at your wedding; arrange for these to be delivered to your spouse at work

3 Weeks Before

  • Purchase a Valentine’s Day card, a box of chocolates and a bottle or two of wine or champagne
  • Get a new outfit for yourself
  • Book her in for a mini pamper session to get her hair and nails done before V Day
  • Book him in for a haircut and close shave before V Day

A Few Days Before

  • Wrap your gifts
  • Make final arrangements
  • Reconfirm all bookings
  • Attend the previously booked pamper sessions

Valentine’s Day

  • Start the morning with breakfast in bed
  • Spend the entire day showering your love with attention and affection!

Have a blissful breakfast in bed in Valentine's Day

From left: Personalised Mr & Mrs Mug Set and Mr & Mrs Egg Cups

Have a blissfully happy Valentine’s Day!Happy Valentine's Day from

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