My best friend is a man and he’s always said he didn’t want to be a male bridesmaid or bridesman. I guess a bloke thing. And I totally get it. However I just cannot get married without him by my side hes been my best friend since school. I don’t want him to be a usher as that just isn’t good enough of a role in my eyes. I just don’t know what to do shall I just tell him its tough he’s my man of honour or just leave it. I do think he would be gutted if he wasn’t part of my big day. Please help any suggestions or advice. Thank you.