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This Guy RSVP’d to His Ex’s Wedding Invite with a Hilarious Message

But hey, at least he RSVP’d, right?

One of the most painful things about planning a wedding is waiting for all the RSVPs to come in after you’ve sent out your invitations, and sorting them out. But at least bride-to-be Hayley Stamper, from Lincoln, Nebraska, got an RSVP which made her LOL.


She is marrying her fiancé Austin next month, and they decided to invite her ex to the wedding. The couple are friends with Thomas Hoefener, and Hayley dated him when she was around 15. Thomas decided to make a bit of a joke on his RSVP card, but Hayley wasn’t fazed.

funny wedding rsvp

“I just laughed,” she told Buzzfeed News, “I wasn’t even surprised. I knew he was going to say something like that, I knew he was going to do something witty the second we invited him.”
Hayley tweeted Thomas’s response and it’s since gone viral on Twitter with 15k retweets. Thomas is taking advantage of the sudden fame and using it to try and find a date for the wedding – and Hayley is trying to help him find one.

We love this story – let’s face it, it’s not often you find a positive RSVP tale. Have you had any funny RSVP messages?

If you’re in need of more wedding LOLs, check out our edit of the funniest wedding quotes for stressed out brides

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